Joven Chiam Wen Yong
Where should I even begin...
I just don't understand how someone can be that much of a liar and manipulator
He keeps thinking that I am the one who keeps refusing to let him go, when I already told him face to face that okay I have already accepted the fact that we are different in our views and I am ready to part ways
Then the very next day he asked me to go JB with his family, kept texting me about the places they visited that reminded him of our previous JB trips, bought me my favourite eureka popcorn... told me to let him "slowly get back into the state of a bf..." like he literally texted that. And then the next moment, he can completely deny and say "noooo I never said that hor" and "when did I ask you to come JB"... wtf?
If he really wanted to end the relationship, then okay... Come to my house to celebrate my birthday for what?! I just cut cake with my family can already what. I wasn't even throwing a party or anything.
At this point in time, I seriously think that he is a fickle-minded pathological liar. He lies not only on big issues but even for small things on a daily basis. Sometimes when I already know what happened and I have evidence on the facts, he can't even admit his mistakes. And he is damn hao lian, he keeps saying that his interview skills is damn good, where even if he doesn't like the role, he can say until people believe that he wants the role so much. LOLOL.
In front of others, he just acts like a nice humble person. But omg, he is not humble at all!!! He keeps thinking that he is the most handsome person in SUSS and he wants to get into Standard Chartered International Graduate Programme for the glory (he literally said glory...) LOL
AND he keeps bombarding me about his anti-feminist views, about how females should serve the males. Like he completely agrees with Andrew Tate. But he will never express that on social media because he says that he is scared that he will get cancelled LOL
One might wonder, why was I even with a person like that? Well... He wasn't like that in the past when he had nothing to his name. Okay, he already had a habit of lying since the start. But it only got worse this year. This chauvinistic part of him only manifested AFTER he got accepted into the Standard Charted International Graduate Programme and got interviewed by Today Online. And the best part is... He says that he just have to sell people his sob story, and he can get in anywhere... LOL
Then he asked me to financially support him until he starts work then he can provide a better quality of life for the both of us. WHICH I DID. When he has no money to pay his credit card bills, I transferred him. For Kyo's expenses, most of the time I paid 100%. When he incurred fines, I also chip in to help. When he has a donation drive, I am the first one to donate. For our dates, most of the time I am paying like 70%-80%. And then after that, he cheated on me. Thanks a lot. Even for his Bali trip, I transferred him some money to buy his hiking equipments. He said that he will transfer me back, but till now, nothing hor. NATO. No Action Talk Only.
But it is okay!!! I believe karma will always find its way, even though it may manifest itself later in life. Like on 28 April, when he cheated on me to go on a date with Hazel Mak, he lied to me that everything will be back to normal with us and Kyo. He told me to "trust". And then on the other hand, he went to tell Hazel Mak that he was "appeasing" me LOL obviously he was having the time of his life lying away. Anyhoo, 3 months later, LTA sent him a letter and fined him $400 for crossing the red light on 28 April with 12 demerit points HAHAHA
And on the very day that he went to climb Mount Rinjani, the summit was out of bounds for visitors due to an unfortunate incident. Like of alllllll days, it has JUST got to be that day when he visited. This is really called KARMA
Bye MCP.