1) If you're not sure, just ask :) Won't die one ! At most, you'll just get dao-ed or get embarrassed. Haha ! After that, I guarantee life would feel so much better, regardless of the results. Better than speculating.

2) No need to avoid. If you haven't done anything wrong, there's no need to shun people :) Just stay put and let them shun instead, go go go ! Haha don't trouble yourself that way .

3) If you can't change the situation, just learn to accept it . Life moves on , things change, adapt . It might take a while, might hurt in the beginning but over time, you'll live fine :)

"Why do I and everyone I love pick people who treat us like we're nothing?" "Charlie, we accept the love we think we deserve."  

"I just need to know that someone out there listens and understands and doesn't try to sleep with people even if they could have. I need to know that these people exist." 

"Then, I turned around and walked to my room and closed my door and put my head under my pillow and let the quiet put things where they are supposed to be."

"And in that moment, I swear we were infinite"

"This moment will just be another story someday." 

"I hope it's the kind of second side that he can listen to whenever he drives alone and feel like he belongs to something whenever he's sad. I hope it can be that for him. "

"Sam and Patrick looked at me. And I looked at them. And I think they knew. Not anything specific really. They just knew. And I think that's all you can ever ask from a friend "

"I don't know if you've ever felt like that. That you wanted to sleep for a thousand years. Or just not exist. Or just not be aware that you do exist. Or something like that. I think wanting that is very morbid, but I want it when I get like this. That's why I'm trying not to think. I just want it all to stop spinning. "

"Sometimes, I look outside, and I think that a lot of other people have seen this snow before. Just like I think that a lot of other people have read those books before. And listened to those songs. I wonder how they feel tonight. "

(Can't help but laugh at this hehe) "Everyone else is either asleep or having sex. I've been watching cable television and eating jello. " 

"And all the books you’ve read have been read by other people. And all the songs you’ve loved have been heard by other people. And that girl that’s pretty to you is pretty to other people. And you know that if you looked at these facts when you were happy, you would feel great because you are describing “unity”. "

"It’s like when you are excited about a girl and you see a couple holding hands, and you feel so happy for them. And other times you see the same couple, and they make you so mad. And all you want is to always feel happy for them because you know that if you do, then it means you’re happy, too. "

"Everything can't be low self-esteem, can it? "

"I don’t know how much longer I can keep going without a friend. I used to be able to do it very easily, but that was before I knew what having a friend was like. It’s much easier not to know things sometimes. And to have French fries with your mom be enough. "

"But because things change. And friends leave. And life doesn’t stop for anybody. "

"I remembered this one time that I never told anyone about. The time we were walking. Just the three of us. And I was in the middle. I don’t remember where and I don't remember when. I don't even remember the season. I just remember walking between them and feeling for the first time that I belonged somewhere. "

“It's great that you can listen and be a shoulder to someone, but what about when someone doesn't need a shoulder? What if they need the arms or something like that? You can't just sit there and put everybody's lives ahead of yours and think that counts as love. You just can't. You have to do things.” 

"And we could all sit around and wonder and feel bad about each other and blame a lot of people for what they did or didn't do or what they didn't know. I don't know. I guess there could always be someone to blame. "

"So I guess we are who we are for a lot of reasons. And maybe we'll never know most of them. But even if we don't have the power to choose where we come from, we can still choose where we go from there. We can still do things. And we can try to feel okay about them.
Things just keep going. We didn't talk about anything heavy or light. We were just there together. And that was enough. "

"And nobody felt sad as long as we could post-pone tomorrow with more nostalgia. "

"I don't want to start thinking again. Not like I have this last week. I can't think again. Not ever again. "

''It's better not to know things sometimes. "

"It was a hopeful kind of sad. The kind that just takes time."

"Eh why you like Jingyi?""Harh? Aiyaaa, that is long time ago one""Why you like Jingyi?!""No la~ that is last time""Last time can be few days ago ? Even 5 seconds ago is also considered last time what""Uhhh that is when...maybe sec 3? Ya...""Eh farhk. I ask you why you like Jingyi not when !"*tries to evade*"Whyyyyy ? Eh tell me why ! I want to know in what way is she attractive. Because she pretty right?" 

"Aiya all the girls take picture the same one la. Same pose. Same angle. Same lighting""Duckfaceee"